This is a first, what kind of question would i ask if i had an absolute answer to it. First i would ask the question, is there anyone who has an absolute answer to any qiestion in the world? I doubt that because we are all learning something new in life everyday, and we cannot be sure we are doing the right thing all the time. There will always be someone somewhere who will always dispute what we say, whether we are right or wrong. If i have a question, and i ask it out for people to answer, i will get different answers for the same question, some may be right others i may not agree with it, but it all depends on how we look at that question, either with an open mind or literally. Anyway my question would be, would you accept a man or a woman in your life if they didn't have what you expected from them? Am 100% sure the answers i would get may not even be close to mine.